10 reasons to hate facebook

1. If you don’t like crowded places, facebook is not a place for you. You will find all kind of people in it, just like when you travel in a metro/ tube/bus/train you tend to bump into all categories of people, people who are weird, ugly, interesting characters, beautiful people and all other categories you want to categorize people into. But unlike a metro or tube where you would not talk to a stranger unnecessarily, on facebook you may receive a friend request or a poke from someone you don’t know at all. And to add on that you can get messages from strangers as well asking what you do and where are you from etc. Facebook was never for you.

2. Places- facebook offers a functionality which tells the exact location of where you are at a given point of time, this implies that you don’t have any privacy. Be rest assured to face questions and remarks from your friends when you are at a particular place and you didn’t want them to know about it. Especially when you are in a relationship and want a hideout, may God bless you.


3. People talk just about everything on facebook, starting from what are they eating, where they are, movie reviews, political views, expert comments on sports,social issues or any other matter that you can think of as a debatable topic. One thing that is scarce on facebook is the respect of others views and thoughts. If you like expressing your views freely, facebook isn’t the place for you.


4. If you are an amateur photographer, writer, painter, musician etc. or even an artist who believes in constant learning and growing and also appreciating others creations, facebook isn’t the place for you. You will find great artists who only believe in their own creation and think that others don’t have creative abilities. I don’t know if you will be surprised to hear, as a matter of fact, all these great artists achieve their so called greatness by mutual admiration (I leave it to you to define the mutual admirers group).These great artists don't believe in the fact that Art is never perfect. Oh yes, feedback is something you will never have to ask for on facebook (it comes free of cost and against your will).


5. If you have a bad argument with any of your friends, barely it will happen when you will get to know the issue direct from your friend’s mouth (surely there will be your best friends who will always come to you and tell you if they felt bad about anything you said to them, and for such friends it doesn’t matter if they are on facebook or not), you can expect to read that friend’s status message directing at you. If you like direct conversations, facebook is not for you.


6. If you are in a relationship and you accept a friend request from the opposite sex, you will face questions from your partner, needless to say questions often lead to arguments. If you believe even if you are in a relationship you still have your own life, and can still make friends then facebook shouldn’t be in your browser history as the last logged in page.


7. If you are there to make friends, be in touch with your school friends or old childhood friends or have a nice social life, you are mistaken, mostly people use facebook to prove their point, publicize their skills, showcase their creativity. Basically it has to do with gaining attention and show-offs. If you are not an attention seeker, sorry you won’t feel too happy being on facebook.


8. If you don’t like being part of online communities created by your friends or acquaintances and wouldn’t want to see unnecessary updates that keep popping up every minute, facebook isn’t the place for you.


9. If you are a private and reserved person and don’t want people to interfere in your personal life, facebook may very well destroy your private and personal life.


10. If you want your email account to be secure and safe, facebook isn’t for you.

Those Boring Conference Calls..

Aah, did I touch a string or played a chord you were trying to avoid! Don’t feel bad, I know you would have called few of your conference calls boring in the past. Well, don't we all sometimes. 

What is that one thing that makes a conference call boring?

Lets look at a few day-to-day examples, shall we? A presentation that you are least interested in, a report that has too much of data, graphs and bullet points; mostly being overdone with bright colors and designs [as if you were watching models walking in Lakme Fashion Week], an organization structure change that barely impacts your day to day job, a discussion that leads to an inconclusive argument, and sways you from solutions, a recurring conference call where all you do is discuss about things that were not done as decided in the previous call, a call which you joined for a mere formality or may be you are just standing in for your boss.

So what do you feel like doing when you are stuck on a conference call due to these reasons, apart from making faces and feeling frustrated - that where the hell am I stuck!

Let’s start with some business activities, to make us feel good that we still work while being on such calls [it's all about utilizing your time, ain't it]. To name a few- replying less important emails (depends on how many you receive in a day), drafting a less important email that needs one liners more than anything else, chat with a colleague on an ongoing issue - obviously on small and minor ones, go through a document/report that you have been wanting to somehow finish reading - a tick in the box basically, or do some basic reporting that needs less of your concentration.

We might not feel like doing any or all of these things during such calls always, so what else can be done? 

Have some fun probably. These calls turn out to be your chance to do something different that your busy schedule doesn't allow you to do; as we know its all about evolving. All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. Why be that Jack anyway! So here are a few things you can do while being bored to death on such calls; chat with your latest crush or love interest at work (make sure its not an explicitly-romantic conversation if you are talking on the office communicator, if it is, use your mobile. I am sure you know what I mean.), check out that cute, hot guy or girl on your floor - within your visible reach of-course (some may find themselves unlucky in this regard, I know you feel too bad about it), Facebook and Twitter are age-old options; not sure if you are bored of these too, shop online (now this is the most expensive thing to do on a boring call, unless you have a fat salary and love to shop), if you are using headphones for your call then you can stretch the wire and chit-chat with your colleague/s sitting next to you or a couple of desks away, and crack a few jokes (make sure the mute button on your phone is on or else you will end up being a joke yourself), start a group chat with your colleagues who are on the same call to check if they are also bored (make sure you don’t involve your boss in that chat, you know why, don't you) or may be you would just like to sit back and read an interesting article or blog on the internet.

Depending on what we do on such calls actually determines the duration of the call, a boring call often seems to be longer than its specified time. Doing something interesting shortens its duration and makes it a stress buster on that very busy day where you haven’t been able to take that smoke or coffee break even once.

While I write this on a boring conference call, I hope you make time to read it during one such call.

The ....

When you open your arms

the sky turns silver

the clouds get their existence

the trees start dancing

everything turns into a dream

When you take me in your arms

the sky showers its blessings on me

the clouds bring back my existence

the birds make me sing

the trees make me dance

my dreams turn into a beautiful reality

The Rain...

The Rainy Affair

Just after having my favorite Bengali dish-Malai Chingri in lunch on Sunday, it was now time to catch up with the Pune Warriors vs Delhi Daredevils- Super Sunday match. I lighted up a smoke and was enjoying some great hitting by Ryder and while I was just starting to get engrossed in the match I heard some thunder striking. And then in a  moment the  lightening started peeping-in from my bed-side window. It was getting darker minute after minute.

My attention got divided between the match and the breathtaking weather outside, can vouch though that the lovely weather started to grab all my attention. I looked into the sky and it had now turned absolutely dark with a strong breeze kissing the trees and making them dance.

It didn’t look like an afternoon anymore, the feeling of a beautiful evening stood right in front of me giving birth to so many wonderful thoughts in my heart. It seemed the Rain is starting to open her arms towards me.

At this moment my soul was filled with the desire of being in her arms, to feel new and rejuvenated, to have all my sorrows washed away, I just wanted to rest in her arms and forget the world and its existence.

Just then it started raining and I decided to switch off the idiot box as the desire of being with her took its toll on me. I decided to play some music to dance with her and just then the light went off, I thought, may be she wanted me to sing for her and then dance.

She took my hand and brought me to my balcony and we started dancing, I kept on singing and she kept on dancing with me. After sometime she whispered in my ears I have to go now but I will come back in your arms soon.

I kept on singing while she quietly went away leaving me waiting for her…

The Social Network- Necessity or Obsession

For a long time I wanted to pen down the most famous and favorite past time of today’s age, or shall I say the most famous obsession-The Social Network.

Friends, Acquaintances, Strangers, Enemies, Celebrities, Sportsman, Media Personnels, Fan Clubs all at one place. Every business has a specific audience unlike the social network, the whole world is its target audience.

I wish to have known if people of other planets also are on the social network. Given the fact, Technology is advancing at such a pace, soon there will be one day when we will be able to connect with people of other planets as well. After all it’s about changing and evolving. Just imagine you are chatting with a friend who is in Mars and you ask, how is the weather there or lets catch up for coffee. I wonder where the meeting place would be though!

Or imagine your parents messaging you the name of the boy/girl you have to be married to, and then the message says, check his/her profile on Facebook and if you like it Add him/her as a Friend.

Today, Blackberry’s, Smart Phones, Androids, IMacs, IPhones have taken a huge leap over our lives, seems it’s impossible to live without these gadgets which keeps us connected to the world.

Isn’t that the truth?

Social networking sites like Facebook & Twitter where we have millions of members does prove that the social networking gig has become an addiction cum obsession. How many of us read the FB notifications first before opening the newspaper at the start of the day. Notifications, Status Updates, Photo Tags, Friend Requests, Event notifications have become the headlines today. As a matter of fact News Channels today get their Bollywood bites from Celebrity’s Twitter Posts. How convenient is that!

We all want to be heard and seen these days, we like to be talked about, to be in the centre of attraction. As they say, “Modesty is such a waste of time, if you don’t show it they don’t see it”.

Are we still living in the Modern World or is it that we have moved ahead of the Modern Times?

There was a time when the first meeting between two people used to happen face to face, whereas now it happens on Facebook. The time when you wanted to be friends with someone, you used to walk up to that person and say, hey, would you like to be my friend or hey, can we be friends? And today you just have to send a Friend Request.

And I hope we don't start getting Marriage invitations on Facebook or other Social Networking Sites.

The charm of meeting friends everyday, sharing pictures on special occasions, planning events face to face, having face to face arguments or debates, giving updates about other friends is lost somewhere in the Social Networking gig.

Is Technology dragging us to a mere Virtual World from the Real World or has it already dragged us to the Virtual World…!!

Relationship- The Beautiful & The Ugly Side.

No, its not about the relationship with your Parents, Brothers, Sisters, etc. It is about the Relationship between a Man and a Woman.

When a Man and a Woman fall in Love with each other the world around is wonderful, the sunrise brings new elements of life, the days turn joyous, the sunsets turn romantic and the nights turns beautiful. The air is filled with the fragrance of Love.

The commitment to be happy together, to bear pain together,to fight against odds together and the commitment to be one in body and soul begins.

'I' becomes "We".

The "We" takes over 'I' giving rise to newer expectations and challenges.

The "We" who accepts and face the new expectations and challenges always remain the "We". The "We" makes up after a fight, forgives each others mistakes, compromises for each others happiness, cares for each others feelings, gives each other space, trusts each other fully and above all accepts each others individuality.

But the "We" who can't face and accept the new expectations and challenges start turning into 'I' and 'You'.

The 'I' starts taking over the "We". Fights, arguments, sarcasm, cynicism starts taking place. A constant battle between the 'I' and the 'You' begins. Sometimes the 'I' compromises to make things better and the 'You' denies it and vice versa.

When the compromises fail everything between the 'I' and the 'You' becomes a problem.

When a Man and a Woman start hating each other, the world becomes ugly, the sunrise brings another day of hatred, the days turn sad, the sunsets turn pale and the nights turn lonely.

Falling in Love is the most wonderful thing for the 'I' and 'You' together and falling out of Love is the worst thing for the 'I' or the 'You' separately.

The "We" always stays happy together and the 'I' and the 'You' stay happy separately.

Its on us to choose in between being the "We" or the 'I".

Yesterday and Today

Yesterday, Mom used to wake us up to go to school, Today, she wakes us up to go to work.

Yesterday, the excuse for not going to school was I haven't done my homework, Today, the excuse not to go to work is I am not feeling well.

Yesterday, there were classmates, Today, there are cabmates.

Yesterday, there was school prayer, Today, there is Team Huddle.

Yesterday, the talks in between the class used to be by writing on a piece of paper, Today, we talk via communicators or mobile phones during conference calls.

Yesterday, there used to be meeting with friends every evening, Today, you meet overseas colleagues via video conferencing.

Yesterday, we used to take a break to drink water in school, Today, we take a break to grab a cup of coffee at work.

Yesterday, there used to be homework on different subjects, Today, there is preparing presentations for different projects.

Yesterday, it was tiffin break and discussions were cricket or the hot girl in class/school, Today, there is a lunch break and the discussions are office politics, issues @ work, or the hot woman at work.

Yesterday, we used to bunk class to play cricket or spend time with our current crush in school, Today, we bunk office to go for an interview.

Yesterday, there used to be long adda's to chit-chat, Today, there is Facebook to chat.

Yesterday, Dad used to give pocket money, Today, you pay all your bills.

Yesterday, birthday treat meant chocolates, pastries, Today, there is Birthday Party over Pizza,Burgers & Drinks.

Yesterday, there was cricket, football, caram and chess tournaments, Today, there is video game competitions.

Yesterday, pictures were clicked once in a while, Today, they are clicked everyday.

Yesterday, movies used to come in TV once a week, Today, they come 24hrs a day.

Yesterday, there were friends who gave updates about other friends, Today, there is Facebook that gives updates.

Time has changed and has changed the Yesterday to Today.

Amit Gupta

The Sleep & The Awake..

A lot of times it happens that you are badly tired and want to Sleep. You go to bed thinking that you will have a good and sound Sleep tonight, but then the moment you hit bed, you start feeling restless. You just can't Sleep.

You are forced to think about all those complicated things you have at the present moment of time. You start wondering if sleeping pills could have helped.

Just when these thoughts battle in your mind, you see the clock is ticking fast making the time travel furiously.Every time you see the watch, you say, Oh Lord! its so late and I haven't been able to Sleep yet. At this moment of time neither The Lord does anything to improve your situation nor the Clock stops ticking..

The Restlessness, The Complicatedness, The Darkness don't leave you alone. You start questioning yourself whether you will be able to Sleep tonight? Suddenly you hear a voice, yes a voice of Sleep, saying, "I don't want to be with you tonight, you will have to stay with Awake".

You realize you have no other choice rather than being with The Awake..

स्वाधीनता दिवस

आज हमारा ६४वा स्वाधीनता दिवस है और मैं यह सोच रहा हूँ की काश मैं भी आज़ादी की लड़ाई लड़ पाता. उन महान शहीदो के साथ शाहिद होता, अपने देश के लिए कुछ करता. अंग्रेज़ो को बोलता " भारत हमारा है" यहाँ से चले जाओ. उनके दफ़्तरों मे बॉम्ब फेक्ता, गोलियाँ चलाता, जैल जाता और अंग्रेज़ो के मूह पे थुक्ता, उनकी लाठियाँ ख़ाता और फिर उठके बोलता वन्दे मातरम,वन्दे मातरम,वन्दे मातरम,वन्दे मातरम.

भारत माता की जै, भारत माता की जै, भारत माता की जै, भारत माता की जै, भारत माता की जै..

चन्द्रशेखर आज़ाद, राजगुरु, भगत सिंग के साथ अंग्रेज़ो को भगाने का शड्यन्त्र रचता, सुभाष चंद्र बोस के साथ आंदोलन छेरटा, महात्मा गाँधी के साथ दांडी मार्च करता. और जाने कितने ही नाम हैं जो मैं लेना चाहता हूँ जिन्होने अपने प्राणो की आहुति दे दी अपने देश की आज़ादी के लिए, हमारे आज़ादी के लिए, तुम्हारे आज़ादी के लिए.

उन महान योदद्धाओं को मेरा सलाम.

जै हिंद.. 

I am Dieting..

We get to hear this sentence very often, mostly from Women.. Lets say Women at work,in parties,restaurants, marriage functions,kitty parties and the list goes on...

Now is there actually a dieting thing going on, or has it become some kind of statement to draw attention. I have no clue about that.. rather what i see is they do eat saying I am on dieting, but i can have the pizza today.. "ek din khane se kya hota hai".. so is it that everyday you just eat thinking today is the last day I am gonna have these calories.. and from tomorrow i wont..

And then the guys get one question which all my male friends would agree.. Am I looking Fat? Have I put on Weight? My Clothes don't fit me any longer, do you think I should reduce weight?? etc etc..

Women are so particular about the make-up they wear, the clothes, the shoes.. everything has to be in sync and they dont ask questions on their clothes/accessories to men that often.. so why only this million dollar question comes to a Man.. that Am I looking Fat!!

Trust me ladies, you have no clue that we try not to lie to you guys, but this is one thing that makes us lie all the time.. and then this spoils us further..

And I wouldn't say that this sentence is only used by Women, I do know quite a few Men who use this amazing line very often and then do the same.

I wish I could have been a fitness expert and could give you some advice.. all I know is eat whatever you like without thinking twice, sleep well and work out for 30 mins atleast everyday...

Spare your friends by asking that million dollar question!!

Life is too SHORT..

We want so many things in Life and we always want to be successful.

A good career, big house, big car, promotions,foreign travel, branded clothes,nice watches, stylish shoes and the list goes on. We humans are never satisfied with what we have, infact I dont think we ever would!

We always have some desire or the other and the desires never end..

The world has become like a race, some keep on running to beat others whereas some stay at the same place to pull others down. There are some who don't do much but still have the privilege to have everything they want while there are some who are always unfortunate to get what they deserve.

Is it really worth to be worked up so much when we don't even know what's going to happen tomorrow. I don't know if I will be dead or alive tomorrow, but we plan the next 6 months or a year.

Whats the joy of getting a promotion after your marriage breaks, Whats the fun in shopping when you don't have anyone special to shop for, Whats the point of getting a big car when you don't have time to take your partner/family/friends out for a drive! What's the use of a big house when you travel most of the times for work! What's in telling your kids that you have to be successful and rich, which you being one don't spend enough time with them!

We get so engrossed in this race that we tend to forget our responsibilities towards our Parents,Partner,Kids,Frien

ds,Wellwishers.

And one day when you realise the importance of those very few special people in your life you find yourself standing alone with your so called success.

Success is for "US" to be happy and not the "I".

Where are we heading?

Lights, Camera and Action on Humans..

A noise came from somewhere... Lights.. Camera.. & Action.. and we entered into this place called World. From the moment we stepped in we started playing our respective roles.. And since then there has been so many role changes but the scene has been going on and on and on...seems like a never ending role!!

We start with playing the role of a Son/Daughter and then a Friend's role comes in and somehow this role looks very good to all of us. Now with this wonderful role of friendship we are directed towards one more role, the role of a Lover.. Now this Play known as "Love" is supposed to be God's best scripted act..

But somehow we try to direct it in our own way and then we complain/fail, its obvious. Its supposed to be directed by God and not us.. And then when finally we accept to act according to God's direction and script in the play "Love", we enter into Marriage. A new role starts of a Husband/Wife.


When we start getting used to this new role God directs us towards another wonderful role of a Father/Mother. While we find this role to be very lovely but at the same time very demanding.. The role gets better as it progresses.

But again its all about different roles so the script now demands us to enter into another role.. The role of a Father-In-Law/Mother-In-La

w. This role as per the script gives immense joy and happiness and we start enjoying the role and we think this is it..

But then we have another role to play.. The role of a Grandfather/Grandmom..

This is the last role that God scripted us to play as a gift to us for all the roles we played for him in the play called Life..

And one day God says Cut!!!

Desire

A Lover only knows to Love, he has no choice.
In his passionate love for you, he longs to break the chains of his confinement, he has no choice.
He longs to steal in your dreams,don't fret, he has no choice.
He desires to kiss every lock of your hair, don't fret, he has no choice.

Lover asked his Beloved:
Do you love me more than you love yourself?
Beloved replied: I want to die and live for you.
I want to lose my identity for your love.
I exist only for you.
I have given up everything to be in Love with you.

I love you.. I love myself.
I love myself.. I love you.

I am your lover,come with me,
Leave the world of ignorance behind, be with me,
I will love you.

Though you belong to the entire world, come to my side,
I will open the gate to your love.

I desire you more than the World,
My senses, my soul,my mind,my heart hungers for your love.
I would wait forever with silent passion for your one gesture,one glance,one smile and your Love..

Failure calling Success..

Failure- A word we all hate and don't even want to think about it in the wierdest of our dreams.

Infact we all are afraid of it, while in school/college we are afraid of failing in that one subject we are not good at, while studying to get higher education we are afraid of failing to make it to the best MBA/Medical/Engineering etc. college, while being interviewed for a job we are afraid of failing to get the job, while at job we are afraid of failing in an important project,while in Love we are afraid of failing to make it to last forever and the list goes on...

Failure provides frustration,disappointment

,demotivation,pain and all kinds of negative human emotions one can think of...

But then Failure never leaves us inspite of having so much of negative impact on human beings.

We all just want to be Successful, Period!!

I wish Success could have been that easy, and may be we could find the meaning of Success in a dictionary or may be we could find a formula to Success, but it doesnt happen that way.

While its right to say that everone wants to make a mark on the World, and why not we all are born to do something great and unique. But if it were easy,everybody could have done it. But it's not. It takes patience, commitment, perseverance and above all it demands plenty of Failures along the way. The real test is not whether you avoid or ignore Failure/s, it's whether you let it strengthen you to fight back with even more determination,wisdom and perseverance.

Failure either breaks you or takes you a step closer to Success..

The choice is Yours..

A Conversation between GOD & SCIENCE..

Science- Hey buddy wassup? How are you?

God- Hi Dude.. I am doing very well. What about you?

Science-Well am doing just about OK!!

God-Why Ok?

Science- Humans are using their brains quite too much and bugging me to hell. Why did you give them Brains anyways?

God- What do you mean?

Science- Well, I mean you gave them the Power to think using their brains and then they created me to control the world.

Science- I thought it was your job!

God- Had I not given them the Brain you wont have existed my friend.. Don't we get along well?

Science- Ofcourse we do.

Science- But you know what bothers me?

Science- They are controlling the birth and death of Mankind. I am sure you know it all!

God- Can you give me an example.

Science- You know by controlling birth I meant Humans are killing babies well before they are born only because they dont think they are ready to handle it.

Science- Did you give them brains to do such things.. I am sure you had better ideas!!

God- I gave them brains to think and care about each others happiness and also I gave them a Heart as well to Love.

Science-- Well with regards to Love, it reminds me Humans are using the Heart to Hate more than to Love.Hatred is spreading around the world in the name of caste,creed and religion. And you know what they say they are doing it for God. I never knew this was ever your agenda as I know you for quite some time now.

Science-By killing innocent people they are controlling Death as I told you earlier!

God- Well this certainly demands an action at our end. But what do we do? They have the brains and I cant take it back and then they have created you to help themselves.

Science-Exactly my point. So what do we do?

God- Well let me think about it and you also think over it.. I am sure we will be able to find a solution to help Mankind with this.

.......................................................................................................................................

Mankind-Waiting for a solution.

Valentines Day..

The Day to celebrate and express your Love. But does "Love" deserve to be celebrated only once a year, does one need to wait for Valentines Day to express ones "Love" to someone..

Is it actually "Love" that people try and express on this day or is it to just follow the trend!

Being in "Love" is such a wonderful feeling that we want to be in "Love" for the rest of our Lives, but what for, to remind ourselves once a year.Seems like "Love" has become momentary.

To celebrate & express True Love even a lifetime is less..

Love is too great a feeling to be celebrated in a day, infact a few Valentine Days in ones life..

In a country like India where there are hundreds of thousands of children who dont get good education, sufficient food to survive and enough clothes to cover themselves we are celebrating Valentines Day, helping big brands like Archies and many others to be bigger and richer.. Its sad to see we have fallen into the trap of these kind of days!

India doesnt seem to be the same cultural destination because of which its known across the Globe, we are too busy in losing it..

A lot has been happening around us which demand more attention and importance, the Pune bomb blasts is the best example to prove it.. But until the Storm hits us we wont realise the importance nor we would be giving attention to such things..So till then lets celebrate Valentines Day and other such days as well..

Happy Valentines Day to all.

With Love
Amit Gupta

Women..

They say Behind every successful man there is a Woman, but before that Behind every Being on this Earth there is a Woman...

The first word that we learn to speak is Maa, Mom, Mum,Mumma..

Women..
Give Directions when we are Aimless, Provide Resistance when we feel Weak, Give us Hope when we lose Faith, Stand by us when no one else does, Absorb all the Pain when we can't handle it, Make us Strong to Fight when all Odds are against us, Take all the Sorrow when we want to be Happy.

Women..
Without Them- Happiness would become Meaningless, Hope would become Faithless, Challenges would become Terror, Pain would become Poison, Journeys would become Direction less, Love would be Incomplete & Life would become Senseless.

The reason for our Existence & Survival are "Women"..

Dedicated to all the Women in Our Lives...

LOVE..

Some are Lucky to get LOVE-while Some are Waiting for it to happen, Some Fall in LOVE-while Some Rise, Some feel Wonderful & Amazing being in LOVE-while Some feel LOVE as Pain, Some want to LOVE Someone-while Some want to be LOVED by Someone, Some want to come out of it-while Some go deeper and deeper into LOVE, Some think LOVE doesn't exist-while for Some its the only thing that exists, for Some LOVE is a Dream-while for Some its the Reality, for Some LOVE is a Desire-while for Some its the Need..

LOVE NEVER LEAVES US nor WE CAN LEAVE LOVE..

To All My Friends on Valentines Day..

LOVE...

Love Yesterday & Today!

LOVE is Blind-that's the most famous say that we all have known.
LOVE knows No Boundaries, Conditions, Questions, Answers,Logic,Calculations

,Religion.....
LOVE-Heart above Mind, Soul above Body, Emotions above Logic, Understanding above Questions...

Not Anymore!!

Today LOVE has "Eyes", it sees Boundaries, Puts Conditions, Throws Questions, Demands Answers, Goes by Logic, Does Calculations, Counts Religion..
Today it is Mind above Heart, Body above Soul, Logic above Emotions, Questions above Understanding....

Some get the "Yesterday's Love", Some waiting for the "Yesterday's Love", Some are in "Today's Love" and there are Some who don't need it at all..

Which category do you fall in?

A Quiet Dark Night..

In a quiet Dark night I was thinking to myself- Where am I, Do I belong here, What am I doing, Should I be doing this, Where am I Going, Will I reach Where I want to go, What if I dont Achieve what I Desire, What if I Fail and What will happen even if I Succeed and get everything that I Wanted and Dreamt in Life. Will I be Happy? While so many thoughts were juggling in my mind I suddenly looked into the Skies.

To me Surprise you know what I saw!!!


I saw a tiny lil Star looking so HAPPY even being so small,smiling at other Stars who were trying hard to shine more than the other Stars..but this star was Unique, U know why coz it was just enjoying being in the Skies,it was enjoying every moment of its being..

I got all my answers..

Did you?